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Welcome! I create blog posts to share insights on child development, learning, and emotional well-being. My goal is to give parents practical information, helpful strategies, and encouragement as you support your child’s growth. Each post is designed to break down complex topics in a way that’s clear, approachable, and easy to apply in everyday life!
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Supporting Kids Who Process Information Differently
Many parents notice patterns in their child’s learning that feel confusing or frustrating. A child may clearly understand concepts but struggle to finish homework, forget instructions soon after hearing them, or need extra time to respond to questions. These challenges are often mistaken for lack of effort or motivation. In reality, they are frequently connected to differences in working memory or processing speed , two important brain-based skills that influence how childre
26 minutes ago3 min read


Small Moments, Big Connections: Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Bond with Your Child—and Why it Matters
In the swirl of modern family life — early alarms, lunch boxes, work deadlines, driving to activities, and bedtime routines — it’s easy for parents to feel stretched thin. Many parents tell us they wish they could spend “more quality time” with their kids but don’t know where to find it. The reassuring truth is this: connection isn’t built in big, picture-perfect moments — it’s built in the small, consistent interactions we share every day. At Devonshire Pediatric Neuropsycho
17 hours ago4 min read


When Kids Struggle to Focus: ADHD, Anxiety, or Both?
Parents often come to us at Devonshire Pediatric Neuropsychology with a very real, very understandable question: “My child can’t focus. Is this ADHD…or anxiety?” The confusing part is that ADHD and anxiety can look very similar on the surface . Both can cause trouble paying attention, forgetfulness, and “zoning out” in school. But underneath, the reasons can be very different—and so are the supports that help. What Is ADHD in Children? Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity D
Jan 235 min read


Understanding Possible Long-Term Effects of IVH, Birth Complications, and Prematurity: What families may notice over time — and when an evaluation can help
When a child is born prematurely or experiences medical complications around birth, families are often focused on the immediate concerns — breathing, feeding, growth, and early survival. For many children, early medical challenges resolve beautifully. For others, subtle effects may not become noticeable until later in development, when expectations for learning, attention, or emotional regulation increase. This post is meant to help families understand possible long-term deve
Jan 164 min read


Helping Kids Stay Regulated During the Holidays—and Recover After the Season
The holidays are often described as magical, but for many children they can also feel overwhelming. Bright lights, loud gatherings, disrupted routines, sugary treats, excitement, anticipation, and last-minute transitions all place extra demands on a child’s nervous system. Even joyful events can be exhausting for kids, especially those who are more sensitive, anxious, neurodivergent, or easily overstimulated. If your child becomes more emotional, energetic, clingy, or “out of
Dec 25, 20253 min read


A Parent-Friendly Cost–Benefit Guide for Chicago Families Considering a Neuropsychological Evaluation
Is a Neuropsychological Evaluation Worth the Cost? A Parent-Friendly Cost–Benefit Guide for Chicago Families When your child is struggling in school, it’s natural to wonder where to start — tutoring? More meetings with the teacher? Extra practice at home? For many Chicago families, the path to answers feels long, confusing, and stressful. For many families, a neuropsychological evaluation becomes the turning point that transforms frustration into clarity and progress. Here’s
Dec 12, 20254 min read


Connection Over Performance: Honoring Children's Voices During Holiday Celebrations at School
Holiday concerts, assemblies, and classroom performances are often joyful traditions—but for many children, being asked to perform in front of others can be overwhelming rather than exciting. Loud spaces, unpredictable schedules, bright lights, social expectations, and performance pressure can push some children beyond their capacity to stay regulated. Supporting children through holiday performances doesn’t mean lowering expectations or removing opportunities—it means honori
Dec 5, 20253 min read


The Power of Play: How Board Games Build Growing Minds
Board games extend learning beyond the classroom and build attention and regulation skills! In today’s busy world, finding simple, meaningful ways to build your child’s skills can feel like a challenge. But what if one of the most effective tools for learning and growth is already sitting in your closet? Enter: the humble board game. Not only are board games fun and screen-free, they’re also powerful learning tools that can support your child’s development in countless ways.
Nov 21, 20252 min read


A Letter to Parents Who Are Just Beginning the Evaluation Journey
Dear Parent, If you're reading this, it likely means you're standing at the beginning of a journey you didn’t expect — one filled with questions, hopes, and probably some worries too. You might be wondering if something more is going on beneath your child’s struggles with school, behavior, attention, or learning. Maybe you’ve been hearing phrases like “executive functioning” or “processing speed” for the first time. Maybe you’ve been told your child is “bright but inconsist
Nov 14, 20253 min read


Why ADHD in Girls Is Often Missed — and What Parents Should Know
Girls with ADHD often fly under the radar, but their challenges are real. With the right understanding and support, they can unlock their strengths and reach their full potential. When most people think of ADHD, they picture a child who can’t sit still, interrupts constantly, or blurts out answers in class. But for many girls with ADHD, the picture looks very different. Their symptoms can be quieter, more internalized, and easier to overlook — even by caring parents and teach
Nov 7, 20252 min read


Parent-Teacher Conferences: Key Questions Every Parent Should Ask
Parent–teacher conferences are a wonderful opportunity to hear how your child is doing at school, both academically and socially. Beyond reviewing grades, these conversations can give you important clues about your child’s learning style, attention skills, and emotional well-being. Asking the right questions can help you better understand your child’s strengths and identify potential challenges. Be sure to talk to your child after the conversation to celebrate successes and m
Oct 30, 20252 min read


Big Feelings, Small Moments: Why Transitions Can Be Tough and What the Brain Has to Do with It
Getting out the door in the morning. Turning off the iPad for homework. Leaving the playground. For many families, these everyday moments can become some of the toughest parts of the day. If your child resists transitions — sometimes with tears, yelling, or total shutdown — you’re not alone. These challenges are common, especially among children with ADHD, autism, learning differences, or executive functioning difficulties. It is important to understand it’s not about stubbo
Oct 21, 20253 min read


Five Students. One Lesson. Different Brains. How Different Learners Experience the Same Classroom Lesson
Imagine this: A fourth-grade class sits down to write a short story. The teacher gives the prompt: “Write a story about a character who...
Oct 21, 20254 min read


How to Reduce Afterschool Meltdowns in Children with ADHD
Many parents of children with ADHD notice a daily pattern: things go fairly well at school, but as soon as their child comes home, the meltdowns begin. This “after school crash” is common and can be exhausting for families. Understanding why it happens—and having strategies to ease the transition—can make afternoons calmer and more positive for everyone. Why Do Afterschool Meltdowns Happen? Children with ADHD often spend the school day working extra hard to focus, follow dire
Sep 8, 20252 min read


Early Childhood Assessments are Invaluable: The Emotional Toll of “Not Knowing” - When Your Child Enters Preschool Without a Diagnosis
Starting preschool is supposed to be exciting—a backpack that’s almost too big, new friends, circle time songs. But for many parents of young children with developmental or behavioral challenges, this milestone is filled with worry and uncertainty—especially when there’s no diagnosis yet. The Weight of “Something’s Not Right” Parents often notice early signs: trouble sitting still, delays in speech, difficulty playing with peers, or big emotions that are hard to calm. Without
Aug 28, 20252 min read


Dysgraphia Explained: Helping Kids Who Struggle with Writing
Writing can be challenging for many children, but for some, it goes beyond messy handwriting or a dislike of schoolwork. Dysgraphia is a learning difference that specifically affects a child’s ability to write. Understanding what it looks like and how to support children who struggle with it can make a big difference at home and in school. What is Dysgraphia? Dysgraphia is a neurological learning difference that impacts fine motor skills and the brain processes involved in w
Aug 24, 20252 min read


Understanding Dyslexia: More Than Just a Reading Issue
When parents hear the word dyslexia , they often think of letter reversals or difficulties with reading. While reading challenges are a hallmark feature, dyslexia is much more than that . It’s a brain-based difference in how a person processes language, and it can impact many areas of learning—not just reading. How Dyslexia Impacts a Child Children with dyslexia may: Struggle to sound out words or read fluently Have difficulty with spelling and writing Need more time to compl
Jul 28, 20252 min read


What Are Executive Functioning Skills—and Why Do They Matter for Your Child?
As parents, you often hear about the importance of “executive functioning skills,” but what does that actually mean? Executive functioning refers to the brain’s ability to manage and organize thoughts, actions, and emotions. These skills help children stay focused, follow directions, manage time, control impulses, and work toward goals. Think of executive functioning as your child’s internal “air traffic control system”—it keeps everything running smoothly. When Executive Fun
Jul 12, 20252 min read


Unlocking Potential: Why Gifted Testing Can Be Helpful for Children
By Devonshire Pediatric Neuropsychology Every child is different. Some learn quickly, ask big questions, or show a strong interest in learning new things. If your child seems to understand things faster than other kids their age, you might wonder: Is my child gifted? And would testing help? Here’s how gifted testing works—and why it can be a powerful tool for helping your child thrive. What is Gifted Testing? Gifted testing is a way to better understand how your child learn
Jun 24, 20253 min read


Why a Private Neuropsychological Evaluation May Be the Best Choice for Your Child
As a parent, few things matter more than understanding and supporting your child’s learning and development. If your child is struggling academically, behaviorally, or emotionally, getting an evaluation can be a key step in figuring out what’s going on and how to help. But you might be wondering: Should I go through the school for an evaluation, or seek a private neuropsychological evaluation? Here is some information about why parents may choose a private evaluation through
Jun 20, 20253 min read
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